Wondering What to Get Your Girl This Christmas?

Some people are really clever at selecting Christmas gifts and others are not. Here's a few tips to finding that perfect gift for that special girlfriend.

Whether you girlfriend is just a friend or someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. These tips will help you find a gift that will show her you care, without sending too strong a message.

First here's some gifts NOT to buy (unless you're in a very special relationship!)

Underwear of any kind – Underwear is not appropriate for someone you're trying to get to know better. It doesn't matter how pretty it is or how much it cost. It may embarrass her. Of course if you've been married for ages, that's fine. But then you wouldn't need to be reading this...

Something for the kitchen - Kitchen gadgets are simply not Christmas gift material! Unless your girlfriend's a super whizz bang cook and requests the latest blender, just don't do it. She may think you expect her to be a domesticated drudge!

A gift voucher - It's just too impersonal and she may be offended that you didn't take the time to think about a special gift just for her.

Okay, now that we've eliminated half the department store :) what are some suitable gifts you could consider?

Ask without asking – your could subtly lead her into a conversation about what gifts to give by saying something like, "I have no idea what to get my cousin Imelda for Christmas, could you help me out?" This will lead to a few gift suggestions that may indicate what she herself may like.

Try and choose a gift to fit her personality. If you know her likes and dislikes, so much the better. If you know her taste in music, a CD or MP3 would be a good choice. Has she got the latest MP3 player or Ipod?

Jewelry – Jewelry is always a good choice as there are so many different styles to choose from. It is very unusual to find a girl who dislikes jewelry. If you want the relationship to become more personal, you could choose a pretty ring. Unless you're planning for a future together, avoid the classic engagement or wedding ring shapes; aim for a dress style.

I love cubic zirconia jewelry as it sparkles just like diamonds, but is very affordable. A word of warning - never try and pass zirconias off as diamonds. She will find out!

If you feel that even a dress ring may be a bit too suggestive, how about some gold plated bangles or earrings. These items can be easily exchanged if necessary for something else.

Perfume – If you already know her taste in perfume, that's fine. You'll need to get it right though, as perfume is hard to return. Once you've opened the bottle, that's it. Perfume only lasts a few weeks or months too.

Books – if you know what types of books she reads, this is always a good buy. Steer clear of recipe books and erotica though. Also make it a hard cover book. You can't wrap an ebook!

A pot plant - If your girls loves flowers, a plant in a pot may be a good gift choice. She can either keep it indoors or plant it out in the garden. Make sure the plant look healthy and will last the distance until Christmas day.

Buy online – Everybody does this now and it saves so much time and hassle. You can browse much more easily on the web rather than negotiating the crowds in the offline stores.

I hope this guide has helped you make a decision what to buy your girl this Christmas. I hope your gift brings her much joy and that you have a very happy Christmas together!

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